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15 October 2011 - 10:59 AMforgot the link, sorry just a minute.
10 April 2011 - 08:29 AMI'm working at a resteraunt right now with like all of the kitchen staff from a resteraunt like the one you described, a cheap boss trying to maximize profit.
Definately more fun when people are more interested in the actual food rather than money.
02 April 2011 - 04:43 PMI am being kicked out of my high school. Now, let me elaborate a bit.
I am a very motivated student, currently holding around a 4.6 GPA taking all AP classes and I am currently doing a research project through the Ohio State University. I do NOT smoke, do any drugs, drink, speed malicously, fight, or vandalize. I don't break any crimes.
Now, my Mom lost her job a few years back, a very good job that left us out of a home, and into a crazy OCD grandmothers house for the past year until a few months ago. She and her boyfriend (met after she lost her job) were finally able to get their money situation together and start rebuilding their finances, and were able to afford a medium sized home together, however he is a cop, and can't move from his county so we had to move down there which is an hour south of my school.
Solution? I drive an hour to school in the morning, and an hour back at around 9 or 10 at night after I get done at work, where I spend 30 hours each week working.
And so this morning I'm told someone was suspicious we didn't live in our old district and we went under investigation. (First off I know maybe 1 person who would go out of their way to try getting us in trouble) So this was kind of a shocker, considering we still had our residence listed at my Grandmas, and we would just visit my Mom's bf a lot.
Anyway, the investigation ending up deciding we had moved, and we were no longer to go to our schools effective immediately. I have a meeting with my superintendant monday.
I think someone has it out for me, and also I guess an old bank reported me for overdraft fees (I'm fragging 17 bite me, and it was like 4 dollars) so the bank I wanted to have an account at denied me....all today. Like, seriously??
somehow I have stayed pretty calm about this...thought I'd just share a facepalm moment with you guys
30 March 2011 - 08:28 PMFirst, the best any of us can do is give our best (un)educated guesses as what you should do. Finding professional help is your best course, try finding someplace that can offer free counseling at the very least.
Second... you are not a failure. We all make bad choices, the important thing is you have recognized the fact that they were bad choices, but now have to start making good choices. Your first choice has to be to separate yourself from that situation as soon as you can. As Puz noted, the source of your problems is being in that environment, not some physiological imbalance, so medication will only mask the symptoms not solve the problem.
As far as the car, I have a few questions: if the loan is not thru a financial institution, but rather thru your grandparents, who currently holds the title to the car? How exactly is the car in both your names if you did not sign loan papers? Did your grandparents purchase the car outright & have the title put in both your names, w/ you being responsible for personal loan payments to them?
yes. I don't want the pills to solve the problem, I know that they cannot do that. I just need them long enough to get out of here. I already know I will never get my car back. I just want out. I cannot handle my constant mood swings. I miss being happy.
I know exactly what that feels like, and you will be surprised how happy you will be once you get your freedom back, and thats what you should work towards, start by getting whats yours laid out, and take small steps to just completely breaking free, one day at a time.
And as stated above, you aren't a failure or spineless by any stretch, getting this off your chest and talking to people is a good start.
30 March 2011 - 10:08 AMIf you were a friend of mine and told me that, first, I'd tell you to get your stuff, and leave, don't worry about goodbyes, just find a place to stay and start fresh, stop worrying abot dating and just work on your own problems, girls will come and go but you have to live with what YOU do.
Also, you don't seem depressed, posting this in a way shows that, you just have a lot of stuff on your plate right now and need to find your way through it. Just hang tough and do whats best for YOU.
Again, thats what I'd say to a friend of mine, ignore it if you think I'm completely off.
And if the car is in her name you should be able to stop paying for it.