I talked to the girl's mother and a whole new door was opened up. She was avoiding me because she doesn't want any guy to think that there's anything more than friendship. She doesn't want to date in High School at all. She's had to help many of her friends with dating problems, and she's way too busy with soccer, hockey, and other activities (which is a bummer, she never plays paintball anymore).
Oh, I know her parents very well, almost like a second set of parents to me. Her dad thanked and hugged me when I brought up that I care about her and worry about her choices in the guys she takes to formals. They open up their home to our church's youth group and I've known them for years. I don't recommend coming up to a girl's mom or dad that you've never met before, could be bad news.
Wasn't aimed at you in specific. It was just a general statement.