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#1411 User is offline   STAZ211 

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Posted 17 May 2008 - 10:31 AM

View PostSabreUK, on May 17 2008, 07:43 AM, said:

17. =\


lol. well its all up to you man. i personaly dont think id date a younger person, but some guys do. if you want to go for it.
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Posted 17 May 2008 - 03:32 PM

lol girls are naturally attracted to older guys? girls your age see you for who you really are...


but its only a 2 year difference, go for it if you like em
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Posted 17 May 2008 - 03:54 PM

View PostBeccolter, on May 17 2008, 03:32 PM, said:

lol girls are naturally attracted to older guys? girls your age see you for who you really are...


but its only a 2 year difference, go for it if you like em

Yes and no. Girls your age see you more, but a lot are caught up into the opportunities and older guy has and automatically think they are more mature just because said guys have been around longer and thus, know how to play the game better.

Becc, your opinion doesnt matter with the 2yrs thing. ;)

Honestly though, I dont think its that big of a deal. Personally I wouldnt, but not because I think its weird. My lil bro is 2yrs younger and I wouldnt want him feelin bad about himself.
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 11:20 AM

Alright well my girl problem is pretty confusing to me so i need some help. My gf was over and we did alot of things but after she left that night she broke up with me saying its not her because she just has to deal with school and all that stuff so i was upsett but I didn't beg her to stay with me but we kept talking and eventualley she said were gunna get back together anyways and after some more talking she said were in a relationship still and she just needs some space *no more making out stuff like that* and i was like alright I can handle that now this is very confusing to me cuz like I don't get it lol...some insight helping me understand this wuld be appreciated.
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 12:38 PM

she feels guilty and thinks she went to far with whatever it is you two did. she wants time and space to figure it all out, mixed emotions and all that. give it to her, shell come around (probably)
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 01:07 PM

View PostBeccolter, on May 18 2008, 03:38 PM, said:

she feels guilty and thinks she went to far with whatever it is you two did. she wants time and space to figure it all out, mixed emotions and all that. give it to her, shell come around (probably)


beat me to it Becc. lol. what she said she probibly needs some time to think things over. she will most likely be fine in no time at all.
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 01:20 PM

i forgot to add
dont go to her saying nonono it was ok really i swear blablabla i love you. that just makes her feel pressured... dont even let her know you know whats up. let her think this one through on her own, theres nothing you can do

let me repeat that

there is nothing you can do to make the situation different other than give it time
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 02:53 PM

Thanks now that I think of everything that happend and what she said that makes alot of sense.
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Posted 18 May 2008 - 11:27 PM

View PostBeccolter, on May 18 2008, 02:38 PM, said:

give it to her,


Problem solved :smoke:

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Posted 19 May 2008 - 08:08 AM

Aqua didn't post in here lol... Atleast not that I saw...

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Posted 19 May 2008 - 06:40 PM

View PostGoldenhand, on May 19 2008, 10:08 AM, said:

Aqua didn't post in here lol... Atleast not that I saw...


His post got deleted, pay closer attention, blinking causes a lot of information to be missed... "lol"
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Posted 20 May 2008 - 09:25 AM

View Postghostinthewood, on May 17 2008, 11:54 PM, said:

View PostBeccolter, on May 17 2008, 03:32 PM, said:

lol girls are naturally attracted to older guys? girls your age see you for who you really are...


but its only a 2 year difference, go for it if you like em

Yes and no. Girls your age see you more, but a lot are caught up into the opportunities and older guy has and automatically think they are more mature just because said guys have been around longer and thus, know how to play the game better.

Becc, your opinion doesnt matter with the 2yrs thing. :laugh:

Honestly though, I dont think its that big of a deal. Personally I wouldnt, but not because I think its weird. My lil bro is 2yrs younger and I wouldnt want him feelin bad about himself.




I do not want to... They scare me. They got my little brother to let them into my house, when I wasn't awake or dressed.
Why no earth would I find any stalkerish odd behaviour like that attractive? :heart:
If I can get a GF that's good looking, and my age, why would I go for a younger one, who is odd?
Yeah a lot of girls seem to go a bit mental between 14-16...

So do guys though I guess, but they get told off for behaving like that. :rolleyes:



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Posted 20 May 2008 - 08:46 PM

View PostJKLNHYD, on May 15 2008, 08:06 PM, said:

that statement proves that you know very little :laugh:

Let's take for example, one girl, any girl.

She is different from:

age to age
season to season
month to month
that time of the month, from almost that time of the month, to after that time of the month
early morning,morning, mid morning, noon, afternoon, late afternoon, early evening, evening, late evening
Sunday through Saturday, all different days to a girl

Add 2 pounds, different
lose 2 pounds, different

A 20 in their pocket, to a 20 in your pocket

The list is endless... :P



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Posted 20 May 2008 - 09:15 PM

OK guys, another update on my situation:



Me and the girl I like walked around the city for about two and half hours the other day with no real objective. We talked the whole time. She IMed me about a week before it happened and told me I need to call her sometime soon. A weekend went by and she told me again (I IMed her) that I should call her soon. So we eventually hung out.

Anyway, a couple things happened. First, we walked to a park and I sat on a bench (facing a sunset, haha). She sat next to me. I forget how she was sitting but I THINK she sat facing my, like a leg on each side of the bench. Anyway, I kind of looked at her and stood up and said "let's keep walking, this is really awkward." I shouldn't have done that. She was laughing, but still.

Also on the walk, I jokingly asked her if she was the one who smacked my butt a few weeks ago. She said yeah, so I smacked hers. She looked kind of surprised but she was still laughing and smiling, and we kept talking.

In front of her house, her sister scared us and teased her that I was her new boyfriend, but she didn't say anything back to her sister other than "I brought him home for you" as a joke.

When we got to her house, I told her I should get a hug this time. She said something about her mom staring at us, so I think she was going to hug me anyway when her mom went inside but that's the first time she hugged me while she wasn't... under the influence. I think that's forum appropriate.

Anyway, right now I think I'm in decent company. I'm just having trouble reading her. I mean if I call and she doesn't answer she'll call me back, so it's not like she doesn't want to talk so I'm not worried or nothing (although she still never IMs me). We also made plans for today but they fell through. Which brings up another thing, maybe I'm trying to hang out with her too often? I think something came up for her though so she couldn't hang out. I'm not too worried.

Anyway that's my update. Besides the bench I think I'm doing so far. I really can't pick up on her if she's flirting though. She makes fun of me occasionally (good natured of course) about how I look like I'm 13 because I have no facial hair and about how I'm a "bad kid" (she knows I've been arrested and stuff) but that's about it.

And before we got to the bench, she told me that she was having a big party this summer and I "better be there."

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Posted 21 May 2008 - 04:43 AM

View PostStealingYerMail, on May 21 2008, 05:15 AM, said:

We also made plans for today but they fell through. Which brings up another thing, maybe I'm trying to hang out with her too often?


Possibly. Obviously I dunno how often you are trying to, but if she's "busy" more often, then ease off a bit, she'll more than likely let you know if she wants to hang out.
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