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#1051 User is offline   omeblaston 

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Posted 26 March 2008 - 12:30 PM

View PostTexas Trigger, on Mar 19 2008, 07:38 PM, said:

View PostECOracer, on Mar 19 2008, 01:30 PM, said:

ok heres one for you guys.
the problem is her best friend...shes basically everything i want is a girl (blonde, blue eyes, tall, fit, likes the same music i do, loves to cook, go to the movies....bla bla bla).

the problem is shes a good friend of mine as well. so i dont want to say something that will jepordize that friendship. so im not sure if i should just bite my tounge for the sake of the friendship or say something and hope for the best....i just really dont want to loose her as a friend....not to mention i dont want to upset my ex because we are still friends as well....so really i have the potental to loose two good friends if i say something....

ugh....it gives me a head ache to think about


Don't do it unless you're 100% sure she feels the same way. I lost a good friend once by doing that. Just like the Led Zeppelin song: "But when I whispered in her ear I lost another friend." If you screw up and lose her as a friend it'll keep you up at night and you won't be able to forgive yourself. I still think about it sometimes, and I kick myself. Trust me, it hurts like no other. :(

My situation was very similar to yours...She was perfect. Beautiful, brown hair, dark eyes, fit, just drop dead sexy...and we got along so well. I *thought* she was interested, but apparently, I got the "wrong impression."

Oh, and while we're at it, no matter how hot she is, don't try to date a teacher at your school like my friend. ;)


I think everyone here wants to hear about that story and how it went....

and to the guy asking about the dog. like somebody else said go for it as long as it wont screw you over financially. Dogs are awesome despite the (little) amount of work it is to take care of them. We have 8 and i dont know what I'd do without them, just make sure you train it when you first get it.

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Posted 26 March 2008 - 03:40 PM

Heres how my day has went:

My parents had a meeting to go to and i was going to the mall with my moms friends daughter. We alredy knew each other, but we dont REALLY know each other, you know? Anyway, we walked around for a little bit and just hung out. We talked and i guess flirted, and life was good. not really. I like her, but i dont really know much about her, and she does not know much about me. Its really more of an infatuation. There are a couple problems with this. One, she is a year younger than me, and goes to a private school an hour away from me. We would not get to see each other that often. second, im not too sure she likes me. I said we flirted, but who is to say she isnt like that with other guys? I feel like she had a good time, and i know i did. Im just not sure what to do now. part of me wants to hook up with her again, another side says forget anything and just go on with life. people on here are smarter than me, so help a guy out?
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 05:06 PM

Eh, flirting is fun. I've always flirted with EVERYONE, my gf hates it, beause I flirt with coworkers, her coworkers, my friends, her friends, bartenders, etc.

I never expect it to go anywhere, it all just fun... so think what kind of flirting it was...

Also, are you infatuated with her because she's hott, because you're desperate, or because you actually liked what you were talking about n stuff?

Aditionally, did you only like what you were talking about because she was hott or because you are desperate? These would be "no-no" reasons to go after her.


All in all, I'd move on. Be friends, see movies, and flirt, but you don't want a bad break up to cause bad blood between your mom and her friend, because that can cause bad feelings between you and your mom, as well as her and her mom... Make sense?

Plenty of girls to flirt with and go to the mall, feel free to do so with her, but find one to date who won't affect other things like parents' friends
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Posted 26 March 2008 - 08:13 PM

Besides the "desperate" part I don't see how him pursuing her because she's hot would be a bad thing. Now I understand if that's the one and only reason that it could be a no-no. But even if it is the main reason, if he feels there's something there, he should at least hang out with her more to get a little better judgement on if she likes him back. Then he can take it from there.
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Posted 27 March 2008 - 04:10 PM

If you got her number give her a call and then put the ball in her court. Girls are weird and like to play the hard to get card, and then you dont know if she is playing that game or just doesn't like you. I would suggest call her, then see where it goes from there. I wouldn't worry about a bad break up or anything like that affecting other people. You never know if you are going to break up at all. You might even just marry that girl someday, :P

I know the woman I love and chose to spend the rest of my life with was nothing but a friend at one point. Who knew anything would happen???

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Posted 27 March 2008 - 05:37 PM

just call her and see if she felt like you did... if not thats ok if she did thats good.

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Posted 27 March 2008 - 08:48 PM

Aqua, This brings up a good point. I am NOT desperate, never have been. She was hot, but thats not the real reson i was infatuated with her. I did like what we were talking about, but it was not because i am desperate. She is really fun and easy to get along with, and we have similar interest.

Klown, I totally agree with that first part. That would be a "no no" reason to go after her, but thats not my only reason, so im safe :D . I do intend to hang out with her gain sometime, im not doing anything right now, so my schedule is pretty open. I was going to hang out with her again anyway to get abetter idea of what to do next, so thanks for letting me know im headed in the right direction.

Lucky, i do have her number, but there is one little problem...... she has no cell phone. I would have to call the house phone, and that gets real embarrasing when the mom anwers. I really dont think it would be a bad breakup if we ever got together and broke up, she does not seem too emotional (which is good, emotional breakups suck butt).

Black Hawk, I dont think calling and asking that is smart this early in the game. Maybe after another couple dates.

Anyway, i have started to remember little things that happened. One thing as that our moms were talking and they mentioned the fact that her and my bro have the same birthday. They jokingly asked if he had a chance, and she said no, she prefers older men, and looked right at me.

Then, as we were walking around the mall, I caught her looking back at me several times. I asked what that was about, you know, joking around actimng like it was serious (we all do it), and she smiles and says "nothing" according to the ever so accurate guide to words that women use, this means something.

What else can i say? I still dont fully understand what the future holds, but heck, i can just have fun and go places with her and just be friends. I hope it leads to more than that, but if it does not seem to be, so be it.
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Posted 28 March 2008 - 06:04 AM

Well, that isn't the only reason unless you went and looked at your brain. I think the brain's first reaction to girls is looks.
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Posted 28 March 2008 - 07:45 AM

From what you say it all sounds pretty good. I wouldn't worry too much about calling the house phone. As long as it is not an overwhelming amount of calls I dont think the parents would care. The first time definitely wouldn't be a big deal. Parents are funny about their children, mothers want their daughters to be happy so they want them to meet whoever they can that will make them happy. Fathers don't want their daughters dating anyone, mostly because they know how guys are. Sounds like a good situation though, you know she is at least a little interested or else she wouldn't have smiled while hanging out with you. I never smile when I am around people I don't like, and I am pretty sure my wife is the same way :happy:
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Posted 28 March 2008 - 07:57 AM

View PostSaltandVinegar, on Mar 28 2008, 06:04 AM, said:

Well, that isn't the only reason unless you went and looked at your brain. I think the brain's first reaction to girls is looks.

It is, thats why people say "attracted" and "attractive". They want more, but personality is rarely the thing that "attracts" people. Not that there is anything wrong with that because we're still animals and our primitive instincts want us to find the best mates. Nowadays anyhow, you have to have a good looking better half to meet social standards. Being social animals, that is also important to us. However, I dont want to turn this into another sociology thread to watch other people close it down. :happy:
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Posted 28 March 2008 - 07:58 AM

Hehe. Bottom line is: if you call and mom answers it's all good. If dad answers hang up real fast and hope they don't have call display. :happy:

j/k of course.

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Posted 28 March 2008 - 08:37 AM

View PostGoliath, on Mar 28 2008, 07:58 AM, said:

Hehe. Bottom line is: if you call and mom answers it's all good. If dad answers hang up real fast and hope they don't have call display. :D

j/k of course.

Hehe, thats why my sister has a phone in her room now. I scare off the boyfriends. :panzer:
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Posted 28 March 2008 - 01:22 PM

View Postghostinthewood, on Mar 28 2008, 08:57 AM, said:

View PostSaltandVinegar, on Mar 28 2008, 06:04 AM, said:

Well, that isn't the only reason unless you went and looked at your brain. I think the brain's first reaction to girls is looks.

It is, thats why people say "attracted" and "attractive". They want more, but personality is rarely the thing that "attracts" people. Not that there is anything wrong with that because we're still animals and our primitive instincts want us to find the best mates. Nowadays anyhow, you have to have a good looking better half to meet social standards. Being social animals, that is also important to us. However, I dont want to turn this into another sociology thread to watch other people close it down. :D


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Posted 28 March 2008 - 01:25 PM

View Postghostinthewood, on Mar 28 2008, 10:37 AM, said:

I scare off the boyfriends. :D


Ha! Oh, what fun can be had with a little imagination....at someone elses expense. :D

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Posted 28 March 2008 - 01:35 PM

View PostGoliath, on Mar 28 2008, 01:25 PM, said:

View Postghostinthewood, on Mar 28 2008, 10:37 AM, said:

I scare off the boyfriends. :D


Ha! Oh, what fun can be had with a little imagination....at someone elses expense. :D

On the phone imagination is all you need. In the home you just need a close friend to spoon with and later call you crazy so you can "flip out" and "show them crazy" and take apart the shotgun in front of everyone. Or a sister who asks and knows how to use one of the many knives you carry on you out of habit. Maybe even a Wii so you can show off your mad fighting skills on boxing.
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